I am an experienced Dom looking for a service-oriented sub who gets off on being told what to do, praise, punishment, and pleasing me. Everyone, regardless of experience, is encouraged to introduce themselves.

Firstly: I am looking for long term, and prefer someone in Texas, close and willing to travel, and open to relocation down the line should I relationship get to that point. I lean toward ladies who are thick and curvy, but above all must have an ass. I am a huge ass man, and she must have a booty for me.

Vanilla: Seeking a people pleaser who’s underappreciated, insatiable, and unsatisfied (or wants to explore a dark side to their desires). Don’t get appreciated/praised like you deserve? Give your all to people who don’t give in return? I want to change that. I don’t care if you’re married or single, a virgin or extremely experienced, younger, or older, etc. But I do ask to be non-monogamous or at least open minded about it.

About me: I am your everyday business owner who works way too much and enjoy letting loose and releasing with my baby girl. I need you to be that release, that outlet where I can let my mind go and destress. I am a clean cut, active, nice-looking man. Work out 5 days a week to stay in shape, but I am not a six pack. I am happy to verify with photos, and expect you to also. I need you to be that release, that outlet where I can let my mind go and destress.

What I want: Nothing is sexier to me that your submission which I will make sure to earn. I want you to be vulnerable and broken when you are with me. No one has to know how wet you get being used and owned.

Kink: Looking for someone insatiable. Turn off your mind, just do as you are told. No need to think, just obey. You can’t stop thinking about it and touching yourself. I’m going to treat you like one and allow you to be yourself. You want to be fucked first thing in the morning and used all night long. Want to feel owned and controlled? Want to feel little? Our secret. I have a burning desire for rough, insatiable, dark, and depraved sex. You should enjoy being given what you want, but only on my terms. You should enjoy obeying orders. Of course, all of this is only after the boundaries and that trust has been formed and earned. I want you to feel free enough to let go.

If you are new to BDSM, I’m going to ruin you. You are going to crave being abused, used, and fucked like a total…. I will push your limits. Its ok if you are strong in real life, but deep down crave to be Daddy’s slut.

I like to know my subs and control their lifestyle. I like to give tasks and select what you wear. I want someone who can do anything for Daddy’s pleasure. I am not gentle, I prefer rough but will make sure to provide plenty of after care. Not into extreme pain or marks.

I need you to know who you belong to. I will always take things slowly, but do expect you to eventually be ok with letting go and being mine. I will praise you but only when you, in my eyes, have earned it. I’ll tell you exactly what I like. I find most men do not know how to train a sub, and most subs don’t know what men like or need. No guessing with me. I know what I like and not afraid to say it. If you provide it, you get rewarded. If you do not, you get punished. The better you are, the filthier you are, the more compliments you will receive.

Communication: If you haven’t noticed, communication is very important to me. If you haven’t a hard time communicating, we can work on that. I like to do a debrief after each and every scene to discuss. I have expect nothing but complete honestly at all times no matter what. I will not under any circumstances accept dishonesty in any form. I will push you, until I ultimately get what I want and you surrender to me. Over time I will make sure you get more comfortable in speaking.

Experience: I have been a part of this community for 27 years. It’s not just a lifestyle, it’s who I am. Whether this is your first time, or your hundredth time as a submissive, I’m welcoming of all. l've had D/s relationships to different degrees (including DDIg, TPE, M/s, and low/mid/ high protocol) which have led me to narrow down what I need and look for, hence this post. I'm an open book and always happy to answer anything on your mind. If you're curious and inquisitive, we're likely to be a good match.

D/s dynamic: The one constant is that I'm big on communication and care, making our relationship not just a safe space but something unique to us. My partner is a priority for me. That means I would like to chat regularly and often. You don't have to be clingy but it's very much encouraged, someone who'll leave me 1000 notifications because I slept for 30min longer than I should've and you just miss me. I put a lot of weight on good communication, I'm loyal to a fault. I'm also a believer in (negotiated) structure and rules beyond the bedroom. Each dynamic is unique so it's not a one-size-fits-all. Obviously, nothing happens

My likes include (you do not have to like all of these to be compatible): Cockwarming - This is where you spend a long period of time with my cock in your mouth and/or pussy. I want someone who craves my cock inside them. Feels empty without it. I also have to have oral (giving). I desire to taste you always. And cannot forget ass worship. I expect your ass to be available to me anytime I want.

Spanking - Over the knee, tied, punishment

Choking - Not always to the point of passing out. Breath play is exciting at times. Making you let go to me, and then when I bring you back you have one of the largest orgasms you can have.

Bondage - Soft initially, but more restrictive over time. I won't go into strong bondage until I know we are both comfortable. Rope play is fun when we get there. I will make you feel helpless and broken until you're eager to surrender yourself to me.

You feeling safe and turning off your mind, doing what you're told, being my only release. If you've made it this far, give me an upvote and send me a chat saying "Hi". Tell me your favorite color in initial message so I know you read to the end. Edit: If the post is still up. I'm still Looking.