I am a 56 year old married dad who is trying to find my person with whom to share an intense attraction and insane sexual chemistry. You must be willing to be my escape from real life and open to being obsessed over by a highly sexual and passionate man.

There will be pics at some point, but not here and not in the beginning. Yes, we will need to want each other, but getting good "brain" is the first step in that attraction. I really don't care if you look like a supermodel, but have the intellect of a hamster. I definitely value brains, humor, and sarcasm over raw looks. I am a whole package kind of guy versus a cake eater drooling over eye candy.

I exercise. Run, walk, weights and stretching. Pretty much daily. By no means am I ripped, yoked, or anything else that describes a large, ponderous heap of soulless muscle. I fight the good fight to keep the dad bod in check and I do not plan on losing any time soon. There would be no need to be here if I had surrendered to the lure of the sofa and was going to slowly sink my way into senility. I am full of life and want to go, go, go.

So what/who am I looking for? You of course. Kind, funny, sarcasting, caring, and into some sort of self care. Once again, being on the journey is the important part so a perfect finished product is not necessary. Not bad if you are there, but I am willing to walk that path with you. Basic? That is fine. Nothing wrong with being you and being grounded. Just be open minded and passionate. Someone who truly enjoys being touched is on the fast track to the front of the line. Shy is okay, but please be open to exploration and fun. Be local. Local, local, local. Or convince me that you will be local enough times a month to make it worth our time.

Me? ^ 6 ft. Blue eyes. Attractive enough to like myself. Sarcastic. Dominant, witty, fun, and low maintenance. I try to keep clean and look good, with a small emphasis on smelling okay. Very open minded and not very judgementantal. Full range of kinks, passionate, and definitely enjoy the female form. I am an open book and will answer anything you ask. No need to hide and obfuscate things.

So if you want to know more, ask. Anything you want. The first step is taking that chance. I am open and willing to listen

Open with a question about lima beans. Doesn't matter what, just ask...