I know that title is a little vague, so allow me to explain myself. By the way, I see a lot of posts from the US. Are there any people here who live in Bali?

Anyway, here's how I would describe my brain:

• I love spending lots of time with the people I love, and I'm actually a big fan of cohabitating. I'm really easy-going so I'm almost always happy to just go along with whatever other people want to do. And when I do feel that I want to do my own thing, I'm happy to just spend the day by myself so that you can still spend your day however you wanted to spend your day. I also really enjoy being in the same space, but both of us just doing our own thing. I really prefer to be with people who are similarly relaxed and easy-going and who don't get very upset if the day goes a little different than their absolute favorite way.
• Another thing, is that I practice on a daily basis (and have been doing so for 10 years now) is to always look for people's innocent intentions behind everything they do. So even if my parter would do something that hurts me, I would never think they did it because they didn't care. I always truly believe that they did it, because either they didn't realize how it would affect me, or there was some other reason that they didn't manage to choose another way. And so I don't feel betrayed or anything like that, I just feel hurt and I'll look for how we can get closer again and be together with both of our pain. Because of course I know that she doesn't feel great either about what happened. I'd want my partner to have a similar way of seeing people and dealing with situations like these.
• Lastly, I am a total slut. And I say that with pride. I love going to sex parties, or organizing them myself, because for some reason that's where I feel at home. Not all sex parties, they do need to include a clear vibe of "all feelings are welcome here, including insecurities and loneliness, and we'll find a way that you can receive care when you're not feeling great". But anyway, I would love to have a partner who loves these parties as much as I do and who would love to join me to those parties.