We are looking for a woman to get to know, potentially date, and if everything works out, follow polyfidelity, and hopefully join our closed, MFF Triad.

We are relatively new to poly relationships, but have been discussing and researching this as an option for years, and see this as the best path to move forward on. We are ethically non-monogamous. We both feel like there is something missing from our relationship, and some aspects that, as we are growing, we are finding that we need, or could benefit from being introduced. Opening up to a third, truly opens up our life, helps build a stronger day-to-day situation, and a deeper relationship as a collective.

At this stage, we are really open-minded about who we might be looking for and where this might go. Mostly because this is who we are, we have found pretty good success going through life with an open mind and following opportunities when they arise. It is important that we spend the time getting to know each other, finding a good fit and a deep connection with a new life partner. We also acknowledge that everyone is unique and flexibility will be the key to establishing a strong bond to face life together.

In saying all that, we are obviously more likely to have a connection with someone who has a similar approach to life, and similar interests. Therefore, a little about us:

He is originally from New Zealand, having moved to the US six years ago. Always pushing and looking to be successful, he has recently completed his Masters’ degree, and has a high stress/high reward job in technology. For downtime, he enjoys video games, tabletop and board games, a beer and long conversations, and exploring new places. Travel is really important to him, as he is driven to continually expand his horizons. He also has a high sex-drive. Very liberal, he champions equal rights for all, healthcare and safety nets as a right.

She is from the pacific north-west. With a stable, successful job in the Pharmaceutical industry, she is keen to continue to set down roots in Colorado. For downtime, she also enjoys video games, tabletop and board games, streaming, tv, and hanging out with friends. She has a low sex-drive and is still exploring what she enjoys. Also very liberal, she is welcoming of all and just wants to take care of everyone.

We also have a 15 year old dog, and a 4 yr old cat. We have our own house, with plenty of space to expand into.

We are really looking forward to going on this adventure, meeting some amazing new people, and taking the next step in our lives together.