I am a 40yo married mother of two in an ENM relationship who is looking for a charming, rugged or mildly geeky (the dichotomy, I know), classy, down-to-earth, fit, and respectful man for an ongoing casual dating relationship. My ideal situation might look something like this:

• We go on a few nice dinner and activity dates a month as time and family obligations permit.
• Maybe we text or talk on occasion about life happenings, how or the week has been going, and how much we miss each other.
• Every once in a while, we go out with other friends and/or each other's spouses as a group for a fun evening out and to all be comfortable with each other.
• After a while, maybe some weekend getaways or overnighters would be nice.
• Intimacy is a regular occurrence where and when it makes sense ;).

A little more about me. I am Asian 5'3 at about 140lbs so a little more on the curvy side but I'm told those curves are in the right places. My husband and I have been married for over 15 years with two kids at home. I'm a working professional in the technology space. I have a minor back injury so I can't be as outdoorsy and active as I used to be but I enjoy baking, Netflix, entertaining guests, crafts, travel, and fun evenings out.

In terms of what I'm looking for, I can be a bit picky about looks so fair warning. I appreciate classy gentleman who are educated, professionally employed, mature, respectful, down-to-earth, and are drama free (more go-with-the-flow types). I'd prefer someone around my age or older but am open to younger if the maturity is there. I would prefer it if my partners had a limited number of ongoing relationships at the same time for complexity, fairness, time, and cleanliness sake (especially w/COVID).

I have a no-tolerance policy for non-science-minded folks who are not vaccinated at this time and who don't take COVID seriously. This is not a political thing, it's a public health and science thing. My whole family is vaccinated except for my youngest who is too young to get it and we still mask while indoors in public, even school.

I'd love to know a little about you in the first message as one liners just don't work. Please send a G-rated face/body pic within the first few messages and I'll certainly reciprocate :).