Hi! After 10 years of monogamy, my husband and I decided that we were open to some level of non-monogamy. We are otherwise the picture of normalcy...parents attending soccer games, herding kids, and balancing professional careers. We are interested in finding long-term friends that are similarly open-minded. In my dream world, this could be another couple with kids, but a married man with kids would also work.
I don’t want to be a secret. I have tried the men-looking-for-an-affair route, but secrecy sucks. I know there is another couple or man out there who wants a deep, meaningful friendship, maybe even a romantic relationship, and not just a physical one. I guess it is a form of polyamory, but (no offense) mostly everyone over there is not what I am looking for.
To be clear, my marriage is my primary relationship and this will take a backseat. That doesn’t mean I can’t envision vacationing together and meeting in person as often as possible. I am typically attracted to a clean cut look- minimal facial hair/tattoos and traditionally attractive. I am happy to trade photos early to establish attraction.
If you are in an open marriage and roughly my age, smart, funny, and easy on the eyes please send me a message!
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