First off, have you been drinking your water? Did you remember to eat? We both know how your mind works. You prioritize the well-being of others. You're so patient, and understanding. You hate to disappoint, to say no, and not to give your absolute best in every aspect of life. A perfectionist for sure. You think, and think and over think. The grace and kindness you extend to others is beyond what most people understand. So many feel comfortable venting and confiding in you. Your warm/inviting demeanor and ability not to judge make you the perfect combination for friends, family and even strangers to freely unload all their burdens on you and walk away better. When everyone else is whole, happy, content it makes you happy. Your smile, though authentic is surface and meaningful, BUT you NEED MORE. You get shit done, because it has to get done Not because it's what you want to do. You want more. You long for more. Last on the "list" is where you are. You get what's left over, if any. You long to hand the responsibility of you over to trusted hands. Your pleasure, decisions, and choices. The opportunity to stop thinking and simply feel.

I've started from the end and going to work my way backwards like a Quenton Tarantino movie. Feeling without thought is the destination. Let me lay out the journey. Communication is vital to getting us there in style/comfort. I want to know you. The music that makes you pat your foot, and stirs your heart. The food that makes you hum and smile. Share memes, inside jokes, text throughout the day and of course cuddles. You playing your air instrument in the candle section of Target as I randomly lipsync to the song playing while we shop. You sending pics of your haul from the thrift store. The way we play rock, paper scissors while waiting in store lines. Essentially we learn each other in and out.

I've been a Dom approaching five years. During this time I've learned tons about me, the world, relationships and how important self-love/care is. The world needs the best versions of ourselves. I'm rapping this post up, I promise. Cue the Django soundtrack in true Tarantino fashion. It means a lot to me to have my sub be her best in mind, body, and spirit. I pride myself on being the ideal combination of gentle, sensual, affectionate, and protective. My other side is powerful, assertive, aggressive, animalistic, primal, firm, and a disciplinarian. I look forward to chatting with you. Laughing with you. Building with you. The first step in our historic journey is simply a message. Talk to you soon.