I'm 42, from the Toronto area in Canada, looking for an online FWB. I'm married and we're ENM, open to all manner of online activities, but we draw the line at falling in love with other partners. Chronic fatigue and pain on my partner's part has left me with a lot of time to myself and attention to give. I'm happy but also wanting more.

My ideal connection is one where we talk on and off daily about all kinds of things and really get to know each other, and share some regular pleasure together, anything from sexting to pictures to voice or video fun. I have a lot of availability, spending hours alone most nights (usually I'm alone by 11 PM EST and up until 2 or 3 AM), so hopefully you have similar availability. An interactive conversation is always so much nicer than a pen pal kind of situation.

About Me
I'm sex-positive and body-positive; what matters most to me is having a good mental connection with the person I'm talking to. I have a nerdy personality; I really get excited about the things I'm interested in. I love to laugh and am kind, respectful, sunny, and optimistic. I'm introverted but love really getting to know someone. If you have hobbies and passions you can teach me about, that's a big plus; I love variety and learning new things.

I write software by day, leading a project team for a large tech company. After hours, my main social activity is playing board games. When I'm alone, I'll play video games, solo board games, or make music; I'm a keyboard player and aspire to make my own music in several genres. I love museums and trivia too!

About You
I hope you're somewhat similar in age to me, but as long as we connect well and you're at least late 20's, I'm happy. Please be someone who tries to look for the positive things in life at least some of the time; we all have bad days or months, but I've found I'm not a good fit for someone who's down all the time. Please be open to the benefits part; it's not something we have to rush into, but I want more than a platonic friend. If you'd like to game together (board games or video games), that's a bonus!

If you think we'd be a good fit, please send a message or chat request. I'm open to moving off reddit and exchanging pictures when we both feel comfortable.