Hi there and happy new year! If looks are important to you, I have some on my profile. I do value my privacy, especially when it involves weirdos so don't expect me to send identifying pics until I know you're safe :)

If you're sticking around to read the whole thing, thanks for taking the time to read it! I'm East Asian, 5'7" (170 cm), broad-shouldered, HWP with abs exclusively in the morning after a light early dinner. I live and own my own business in the Bay Area, but I semi-regularly commute around the bay, so distance isn't an issue for me. I love any activity that involves water: swimming, surfing, river rafting, showering, doing the dishes, etc you name it. My other interests also include live music, dancing with two left feet, tone-deaf car karaoke, and video games. I like to joke around and enjoy the present.

I am ultimately looking for a life partner(s), but I am willing to take my time to find the right one(s). I am open to most types of poly relationships which I will outline below.

Non-hierarchical throuple/quad

This would be my ideal poly situation. I want two maybe three nesting partners where we can be one big happy family. Ideally, we would be closed and wouldn't have any extra partners, but any arrangement is fine after discussing boundaries.

Kitchen Table

Ideally, I would be close friends with my partner's partners and have my partner be close friends with my partners. I would love it if everyone could get along amicably. I hope we can hang out and/or play board games and/or enjoy concerts together :)

Vee/Hinge

If we're having this kind of relationship, I would prefer being the hinge, but any arrangement is fine.

Solo/Parallel

These are my least preferred types because I want to be involved with my partner's partner(s) in some capacity. However, it isn't that big of a deal to me. I do prefer having a nesting partner though because while the bachelor lifestyle is nice, living with a loved one is even nicer.

There are some other arrangements that I'm okay with but I think they may be redundant to add to this post, so if you have a specific situation, let me know!

About Me:

• Extroverted introvert (currently ISFJ but was ENFP when I was younger)
• Enneagram 1 or 8, Taurus (not sure what these mean)
• Family-oriented, secure attachment style, acts of service, quality time, and physical touch
• Fully vaxxed, drug & disease free, non-smoker, social drinker, dog dad
• Dominant-leaning switch so we can take turns ;)
• Lowkey demisexual so emotional connections and personality are more important than appearance for me
• Highkey try-sexual so I am willing to try almost anything at least once to see if I'll like it
• BIG PLEASER, it is my mission to make you cum before I do every time we do the deed
• Looking to explore some kinks. My main vanilla ones are consent, boundaries, and enthusiasm!

About You:

• Drug & disease free & hygienic
• Open-minded
• Know how to hold a conversation and not a ghoster
• Want some fun!

Prefer chat over private message! Please include what part of my post made you want to reach out to me!