Hi! I’m a recently turned 43, married, BBW looking for a friend.

I’m not interested in hookups or how amazing your dick is. What you’re packing in your pants matters very little to me. I’m technically a hotwife and my husband enjoys me sleeping with others, but it’s not about cucking him or finding a “bull”. Approaching me from these angles is a nonstarter.

I’m non-monogamous (so yes, my husband knows), and a hotwife who can’t do casual sex. I prefer to have a friend who wants to hang out with me and build up to a physical connection. I don’t have a lot of capacity for an in-person connection- I work full time in a professional career, I’m a wife, and I’m a mom so I’m looking for someone who can hang one night a week or every other week. This works best if you’re also partnered and ethically looking for a social FWB, or you’re single and not wanting an escalating relationship.

I enjoy texting during the day and finding ways to connect. I need to like my partners in order to get physical; I want to genuinely like and enjoy spending time with you. I’m a little awkward sometimes and I can talk way too much. Despite my best efforts, I’m a storyteller and I talk with my hands.

I enjoy board and card games, documentaries, crossword puzzles, arts/crafts (and collecting the supplies for them). I like to cook and bake but I rarely do either these days. I’m not outdoorsy, I’m not a hiker or camper. I love trying new restaurants and I’m basic so I’m a sucker for fancy cocktails. I support 420 but I do not partake. I’m liberal and it’s important to me. INFP if that’s your thing. I’m agnostic/atheist.

About you: mid thirties to mid fifties, preferably on the east side of town just to minimize commute. Non-smoker. Equally interested in the F part of FWB as the B. Understands and believes in the importance of safer sex and STI testing. I understand and appreciate discretion, but I’m not interested in being your secret (sorry, mono married men). You’re passionate about something… a band? A fandom? History? Tell me about it. If we don’t share it, teach me and be prepared for a lot of questions.

This is already too long so if you’ve made it this far, say hello and tell me the best concert you’ve ever attended. Maybe it’s our first bond.