Looking for someone local between the ages of 33 and 53, with a normal/average feminine build and features. No preference in height or race.

I’m 5’10”, slender, brown eyes, average looks, big smile, warm, funny, musical, tech savvy, and supportive dad. Note that I do not want to have anymore children.

I’m looking to meet new people and make genuine connections. I’ve been a doting husband and father who takes care of his responsibilities for over 13 years. I’ve had a stable, consistent career for years and am appreciated and respected by my colleagues and peers. I enjoy getting out and going on adventures in and around LA and abroad just as much as I enjoy staying in and being a homebody, foodie, gaming, or bingeing a TV show.

It’s been a long dead bedroom as we are hitting our second seven-year itch but have a productive and functional home life. I don’t wish to upend my family and prefer to keep my home life status quo. My partner feels the same way and we’ve decided to date separately. Finding someone in a similar situation would be cool or someone totally okay with my situation.

Simply put, I am hoping for more social excitement in my life beyond the typical stuff going on now with friends or coworkers. And they don’t need to know my wife and I have opened our marriage. This is why I am here on Reddit.

I do not feel the need to jump into anything sexual nor do I wish to build a relationship solely based on sex or kinks. I’m not avoiding these things but genuinely want to find a chill, reliable woman to start building a relationship based on trust and sharing, without ego or judgement.

I’d like to find nice chemistry with someone I can communicate with daily and meet up with weekly. Once we are established I can host on occasion and hoping you can host as well.

If interested, please reply with your age, a description or pic and any expectations or other relevant information you deem worthy. Include a favorite song so I can give it a listen and know you’re not a bot.

Thanks for reading this far and I hope you have a great day.