Hey there.

Making a long story short: I've been with my wife for over 15 years, and we've been married for about a third of that time. We have a nice relationship, and have no major issues to speak of. We are, however, very sexually curious and open minded. Over the years, we've vaguely discussed temporarily opening up our marriage, and giving ourselves the opportunity to meet and flirt with other people, and potentially hook up with them. Well, we've finally made it official, but I don't know where to turn, which is why I'm giving Reddit a shot.

Truth be told: Outside of my wife, I have only had a handful of other sexual or intimate experiences with women. We've been together for over 15 years, so my previous experiences were back when I was very young, and quite different from the man I've grown into, in most respects.

A little about me: I'm 6'1". I'm half Italian and half Hungarian. I'm technically "Caucasian," but I have a natural tan, and an olive complexion. I've got a healthy head of dark hair, and very dark eyes to match. I'm physically fit, and have some trim and groomed facial hair. I've been told that my best physical features are my lips, my hands, and my voice. I'm a creative-minded individual. I'm an artist, musician, and educator of several different studies. At the end of the day, I'm a great conversationalist, and a respectful person with a big heart. Unsurprisingly, I also have a dirtier, naughtier, and kinkier side, but that is really only reserved for people I end up having a deeper connection with. I'm all for a random fling, but sex and intimacy is always more incredible for me when I have a great mental connection with the person I'm sharing it with.

A little about you: I'm a very open-minded individual, so I am quite open to meeting women of all shapes, sizes, interests, and backgrounds. Variety is the spice of life, after all. With that said, though, there are a few specific intrigues that are worth mentioning, but are certainly not concrete, or deal breakers.

• I must admit, above all, I certainly have a thing for Asian women, but have never dated or been intimate with one.

• If you're a fan of jewelry, in any regard, (wearing, collecting, shopping), you should definitely write out to me and inquire further, especially if you're a professional in the jewelry field. You won't be disappointed. :)

• Somewhat related to the topic of jewelry, but I love women who take pride in her clothing, underwear, accessories, and whatnot. I am very much the kind of guy who will notice that you picked out the perfect pair of sunglasses, and, yes, it's definitely a turn-on for me.

To be honest, I am still not 100% sure what I am looking for, or how far it would go. I've been in a long-term relationship for most of my adult life, and still have to discover where our open experiment will take me. I am hoping to meet an intelligent woman who is open to helping me discover the right answer for me, for us, and how we might fit together. I'm looking forward to new-person butterflies, exploring one another, feeling out a conversation, flirting, all of it. If you're intrigued by my thread, please feel free to write out. We can get better acquainted over Reddit's chat system, or Discord. Let's see if we'd make for a good match.

Thanks for reading.