Hello! Thanks for taking the time to read (: If any of this interests you, be sure to send a message!

Disclaimer: please do not interact in any way, shape, or form if you are a straight man.

To start with:

• I’m disabled! Not physically, though it does keep me rather housebound. I’ve been trying to get out more lately but meeting IRL will take me a long time.
• I don’t drive & don’t plan to
• I'm a trans guy and my voice doesn't "pass." I plan to start taking T soon-ish to change that
• I view sex as an important part of my romantic relationships, so I won't be interested in anyone on the aspec; though I would consider myself demisexual as it takes me a while to warm up to anyone sexually
• Flirting with me right off the bat, or even within about a month of meeting will result in a block. I need to know you before I can be that comfortable.
• I am childfree, catfree, & not open to debate.
• I don’t drink or smoke & would prefer if you do not either as intoxication makes me extremely nervous & uncomfortable
• I dislike unpredictability & spontaneity. If you’re the type to do things without planning ahead of time, we won’t be compatible, sorry

Regarding my status a "polyamorous" & "in an open relationship":

I have a long term girlfriend. She is wonderful. She is, however, asexual & while I'm definitely someone who takes a while to warm up to people in that way, I am most certainly allosexual. So, we've come to the realization that we're just never going to be compatible in the bedroom. We've processed this, had our conversations about it, & now I'm in the market for another partner! When it comes to our poly style, we would be most comfortable with someone who doesn't mind hearing about the other person (IE: you wouldn't mind me talking about her sometimes, & you also don't mind me sharing stuff about our relationship with her.) Meeting in the future isn't as important as just having an open conversation boundary.

With all that out of the way, here are some lighter things about me!

My name’s Andrew! I'm a professional erotica author so writing is basically all I do if I'm not procrastinating with Netflix or games. I love gaming, usually in the survival/city sim genre. I've been obsessed with FFXIV lately, so definitely hit me up if you play! I love learning about new things & exhaustive conversations. I spend a lot of time analyzing media, especially queer theory & history. I watch some anime & am highly engaged in fandom culture on Twitter.

People say I’m smart, I have a hard time accepting compliments so I’ll leave it at that. I am open minded, caring & very generous, though. It takes me a while to warm up to people in general, however. I'm a solution based person, always looking for ways to help & make other's lives easier, especially those I care about. I’d consider my love languages to be quality time spent together, acts of service, & eventually, physical touch.

If you're into this sort of thing: I'm a February Pisces with a lot of Capricorn in my astrology chart. My Myers-Briggs thing is INTJ-T.

I'm looking for someone (over 27) to start things off slow with, a friendship that can turn into something more eventually. Primarily I am looking for a long term relationship. I want someone dominant. I like decision makers, people who have strong opinions, are passionate about things & can articulate them well. Physical touch in a relationship is important to me & I’m into several fetishes & lifestyle kinks, such as con-noncon & ageplay.

Other than that, to start off with, I'm looking for someone who's around to spend a bit of time with daily, on Discord calls preferably. Relocation is eventually in the cards if need be. I’m potentially all in if the right person comes along (: