Spring is imminent (finally!), the sun is shining, new growth is sprouting, and potential is blooming. Emerging from the mist of winter into the glowing promise of fresh air and restored Vitamin D has me craving connection. I don't have much of a green thumb for plants, but I'm pretty skilled at nurturing engaging, flowing, natural, comfortable explorations.

I love that kind of click where you're engaged and can see the possibilities almost immediately, where shared interests, playful repartee, and vulnerability lead to that beautiful slow burn of chemistry & anticipation. This is the magic I cultivate, a reminder of human potential. I love learning new people, hearing their stories, and finding the places where our paths overlap.

I’m polyamorous, and don't believe that love, lust, devotion, or intimacy require expectations or next-steps. Things are what they are, and much of the time what they are is beautiful without comparison or labels. I have no interest in monogamy, and while I've mostly dated cis men in the past, I'm really interested in dating and loving other types of lovely humans.

You should know before you message me that I'm fat and sexy, with a buzz cut and a hate-on for intolerance. I’m a raging feminist and humanist. I advocate loudly and have learned to be silent and listen even when it makes me uncomfortable, because talking over the oppressed is oppression. Silence is complicity, #sorrynotsorry. If you are sad Trump got “indicated,” are not vaxxed against Covid, have ever sported a thin blue line flag or clothing item, or don’t believe that kids deserve gender care, please do not message me.

The last 15 months have been a period of growth for me. I’m cultivating my roots, simplifying, and returning to the things that make me happy - art, writing, reading more, scheduling less, and loving others. I love dinosaurs, spreadsheets, pizza, and when my kids both agree to play Minecraft at the same time and we all log in together. If any of this tickles your fancy, shoot me a message or a chat request!