I can't imagine I'm alone in feeling this...

Does anybody else have the "I can't be (minority here), because I've never been oppressed and have nothing much in common with people who are (minority here)" feeling pop up?

I've essentially never had anyone make a big deal of my gender, regardless of what I identified at the time as. Gender basically just isn't a thing with me, and it really never has been. The same goes for sexual and romantic orientations or being polyamorous or whatever else. It feels like either I'm the luckiest bastard alive for my insane degree of intersectional privilege and extraordinary luck, or I've successfully transcended gender, or maybe somehow both. People just let me be me, and it frankly makes me uncomfortable in NB (and other similar) spaces to have little if anything in the way of shared experiences. Can I really be an enby? I know that the answer is yes, but it's still hard to swallow.