I (NB29) realised I was not cis about 3.5 years ago. I am out to everyone except my family. I have a lot of "girl passing" so I thought it would be easier for me to keep the things the way they were, since my parents would find it difficult to understand. I though I was doing them a favour, but I find myself very unhappy now since I have to mask my identity to them.

I think my mum will be the worst, since she has always criticised my looks, tattoos, hair shaves, etc., which ironically make my non binary identity stronger and give me euphoria.

I'm scared and I feel very vulnerable and lonely :(

I want to tell them via text, I just need the confidence to do so. Any tips or similar experiences?

Thank you in advance!!