This is how it was with my straight ex before i learned more about myself. Liked my "man" side (lol as if i ever had that) but tolerated my feminine side which is like, 70% my whole deal. Def feel like im done with monosexuals but ive shrunk my pool even further like that. Mannnn. Also thank you sometimes i dont feel like i look cute 🥲

Probably right, its quick convos and once i send the number or ask for a date its like it becomes too real and commital and they bounce. In all my 7 years on tinder ive had 4 1st dates..and thats it lol. In real life ive had real relationships and interest. Issue now is idk how to meet people? My pools shrunk, the ones im into has shrunk, no school means i cant see that person daily anymore, and everything feels way faster paced. In school it was a slow burn, if u slow burn in the adult world i just become invisible. So thats my trouble now, aside from apps always sucking

Im not on hrt or anything it was just hard for her to accept that being attracted to me was kinda gay and she like could not kiss me when i was in makeup or other fem presenting clothes. Just made me feel undesired. Like supportive but in an ally friend way, lost attraction to me. Painful honestly

So much all of this, i think presenting feminine helps people see me as more my gender and less like a cis male, i mean i say im transfem too and some see me as a women which is great! better than a man, its still not my full story tho yknow, i find pansexuals dont gaf but theyre rare. Bis are similar tho i def run into "im only into fem afabs and masc amabs" (one thought i was a cis girl and ditched when she found out i wasnt) which is annoying. And yeah agree on cis women, im trying to make more of an effort to meet other nbs, the 2 times ive met them it clicked in a different way that i enjoyed unfortunately it didnt rlly go anywhere

I cant even get to the hookup part, idk what im doing wrong ppl just do not care even when i think a convos going well and is interesting, i ask an open ended question and get no reply back? Like, idk i like chatting at least a bit before handing my number out like damn sue me lmao

Cries ;-; gotta keep going i suppose

Im not purposefully doing that, but i seem to click better off the bat with bis and such more often

Im not even looking for love right now, hell thats not even think thats something you can look for thats something that happens and develops. I just want dates and hookups that may lead to somewhere long term but i cant get past the texting phase of online dating. As far as everywhere else, idk work is a no go clubs i guess i can take a look at and im way out of school by this point. Options limited

Nobody really used it where im from, basically tinder country out here lol

I wont share my location but its not particularly conservative. In person at queer bars and nightlife events i actually have decent luck with at least flirting with someone im into, but its a tough scene to go from a place like that to a date

Same once i mention my lack of breasts. Ive thought about top surgery just to be more attractive to people but thats not right

I think its a combo of transphobia and gentital/appearance not aligning with whats typical. Masc males and fem females seem to simply be what majority want. Ive left my pronouns and gender out of my bio to let people assume whatever and honestly that didnt really do much either