When I was 14 or 15 and first started learning about hrt and stuff, I instantly wished I could take testosterone. I wondered if I was trans for a long time, but realized that I just don’t identify strongly with make or female. I’m 25 and it’s only within the past year that I’ve admitted to myself that I’m non-binary and have really started to feel comfortable with my identity (shoutout to my therapist for helping me through this lol).

I still want to start T though. I want a deeper voice and I have horrible, horrible bottom dysphoria. I wanna get top surgery too. My friend keeps saying I can’t do those things and be non-binary. Is she right? The goal of T (for me personally) isn’t to be a man, it’s to be more androgynous. Can you be non-binary even if you take T?