Hey there! I've been dealing with some internal issues and I'd love to hear from some fellow enbies and trans friends.

So the situation is this, for my whole life I have been bisexual. I was amab, and didn't come out as trans and begin hrt until I was 28 years old. I've now been on hrt for 2 years and I'm turning 31 later this year. But my sexuality has really changed recently to where I don't find more masculine people attractive, to the point to now I'm wondering if I'm only attracted to femme people and women.

Is this something that has happened to others? I'm also feeling like I can't call myself a lesbian, because I myself am not a woman. So I'm having a hard time finding a way to identify myself.

And while I do understand that having a specific identity isn't necessary for someone to be, it does help me with understanding myself.

Thanks for listening 💜