So to get this out of the way first: I'm not looking to fall in love, or find a soul mate, or anything of that nature.

I am looking for something physical. Let's call it an activity partner.

To put it just really simply and honestly: I'm looking for someone to have a regular good time with. A bit of a distraction, a friend with benefits. You know, like your tennis buddy, except replace tennis with sex. Because sometimes everything else is pretty good, and the one thing that's just needed is someone to get naked with. Also, helps burn calories.

And, I mean, why does anyone else have to know about it?

Second thing to get out of the way: I'm single. Yes, I get it, that sounds weird. So why look here? This isn't the first time I've done something like this, but I've found women in a certain situation typically are more forthright about what they need, want to avoid playing games. It's not a power fantasy or anything like that, and am not trying to stroke an ego. I have no compunction on what this is, but I've met quite a few people that have looked at this as a way of perhaps helping just scratch the one itch on something otherwise great.

And if I'm going to be completely honest, I enjoy being the sidepiece. I like the seemingly platonic friendliness outside followed by the complete change once the doors close.

It's very practical: We're likely both just looking for something physical and fun that's just away from our normal lives without complication, and nobody needs to know about it.

As for the details, I'm a 39 year old Asian man, tall, in shape, white collar job, fully vaccinated w/ booster, ddf, musician on the side, enjoys a good meal but doesn't drink a whole lot (life hasn't been that stressful), been told I'm an adorable dork.

Looking for a woman that is confident, knows exactly what they want out of something like this (e.g., also looking for something physical and not someone to fall in love with), and is kind (I know this is a weird one, but compassion and kindness are incredibly attractive). I'm flexible on race, but am very partial on someone that is height-weight proportional (e.g., thin, average, fit, or curvy in the right places). Please be local, vaccinated, and ddf.

More than happy to exchange pictures early to see if it would work out. And can host (hey, there's some very big perks to being single, especially when you've got your own place).

Hoping to hear from you.