Hi.

NO SINGLE GUYS!

Not going to write a novel as I don't have a lot of faith in this but figured it couldn't hurt to try. If you're curious and want to know more shoot me an email. If you have K!K, or SN@P or other messenger let me know and we can chat there for a more fluid conversation.

I'm a 43 yo white male, brown hair, green eyes. I was an athlete and gym rat through college and while I try to eat healthy and work out due to life stresses and being a dad I'm not toned, ripped, or whatever term is used today. I still have the broad shoulders, strong arms and legs but I have a little bit of a dad bod. I still try to be healthy and as active as possible so I'm told I still look good for my age. I hear dad bods are in but figure that is just to make us feel better. :) I luckily have maintained my youthful energy and stamina which serves me well in the boardroom and bedroom. I'm told I have a Robert Langdon thing going for those that read the books. Tall, handsome, and mysterious. Well versed on many topics so I can hold a conversation without a phone.

Like the title says I'm looking for those that are submissive. I love to control which could range from providing you instruction/tasks to be achieved in a given time frame, suggestion on clothing, hair style and so on. I will not however impact your work life or personal life in a manner that is detrimental to your well being or your livelihood.

If things progress to the bedroom I do tend to be dominate. I love to explore, find a ladies sensitive or pleasure zones, and see how best to use them. I tend to be very oral both giving and receiving. Spent a good number of years studying Tantra and while no expert am I; I do have reasonable control over my body to last longer so she can have multiples if she wants. I like to play with toys and have a little experience with BDSM but that's not what I prefer unless I'm in a specific mood. I do like to be commanding in the bedroom. I expect to be taken care of and will reward those I am with. I do have experience with group settings so I'm ok with MF, FF or others but not looking for a Caligula type orgy here. At least not right now. One or two to enjoy is enough.

What I am looking for, to have fun. Plain and simple but it is what it is. I don't put people in boxes, it's a good way to miss out on something great. I have to put an age range I guess but I don't look at that. Background, skin color, size, culture is what makes you; you and I'm open to it all. I do gravitate to a few things though, I won't lie. Confidence is sexy, intelligence is hot, sassy is fun, witty keeps me on my toes. I do have soft spots for Asian ladies and red heads but again not a requirement.