I’ve asked a few people around me. But they’ve all said similar things that don’t really work.

Find someone in your work place -> this doesn’t work because I work in IT for medical locations and everyone is both 15 years older than me and already has families. I have not seen a single person my age (25) in a long time

Do your common interests and hope to find people that way -> my interests are playing games with my friends and playing games competitively with a team, taking care of my cats, and spending time with my family. I have a decent amount of friends that I play games with. But none of them are potential romantic partners

Go out to places and do things and potentially meet people -> there are multiple issues with this. One is that I don’t have interests in these things so the people I find there also won’t have these interests. Two, isn’t it a bit overbearing to go out to these places and impose my desire for a partner on other people? It’s not really something I’d like to do.

I’ve tried online dating. It didn’t really work for me. No one has any interest in me. I used a lot of the dating apps for a solid year with only 2 matches that never lead anywhere.

I’m a solid 6/10. Maybe a 7.5/10 if I could drop 30 lbs or so (5’8 200 lbs)

The only thing I can think of Is to go to conventions and try to meet people there but conventions are expensive and I don’t want to just randomly hit on people either. It just feels gross to me. Idk maybe I’m weird