So, I'm gay. And I'm married to a man. My upstairs neighbor is straight. But every now and then he comes downstairs and hangs out with me and we talk and watch some TV. The talk is always about sex. How he is always banging his girlfriend three times a day and how he's banging everything under the sun.

This time though, he tells me that he's made out with three men in his life even though he's straight. So that goes on for a little while; we keep talking about sex and more, I tell him how I have sex, and he tells me how he has sex.

Then he says to me, that the three times he's made out with men, and with most of the women in his life, he has not been the aggressor. He needs the other person to make the first move, since he just can't, then he just stares at me. I say, oh I'm kind of the same way too.

This goes on for another hour. Then he says he has, to go to bed, leaves and goes upstairs by himself. Alone. Am I clueless here? Am I an idiot? Or does this man want me to make out with him, and then have sex?