20M Straight (mostly).

I don't talk about anything sexual or even about sexuality at all with my friends, so all I have here to rely on, unfortunately, are stereotypes. That said, I wonder if there are more masculine and feminine ways of being attracted to someone. Like, if it were the case, I'd characterize masculine attraction as being more immediately physical and making the visual aspect of attraction more primary, whereas a more feminine attraction might be somewhat more balanced between who the object of affection is as a person vs. what they look like. So, for me, even though I'm really only attracted to women, I get the sense that I am attracted to them in a more feminine way than other men. Does that make any sense?

Is there anything to this, or is it all based on flawed, and potentially sexist, stereotyping that I should work on correcting?