It is so weird how I’m treated so differently in different places. I can stick around my hometown (50,000 people) or go to most other mid size towns and be a 10, but somewhere like Orlando I’m a 5. I can go to (not gonna say the name of the gym) one of the most renowned bodybuilding gyms with tons of gym shark members and be called hot left and right by girls trying not to let me hear them or even at an anytime fitness I usually get stared at by a lot of girls and stared down by most dudes because I’m “intimidating” I guess. Same goes for the stare downs when I’m out in public a lot of dudes stare me down for no reason like they wish they looked like me but yet I can’t get a single girl to come up to me but they all have girlfriends and I’m always alone out in public. But yet I can go to planet fitness and not one single girl will stare at me. I am get hawked down by blondes that a lot of dudes would kill for and probably pay to send them pics but I can’t get a stare from a Latina that’s a 5 (I like Latinas and they all date ugly men for the most part). I can get a stare down from your mom but I can’t catch a look from the overweight girl behind the fast food counter. It makes me so mad because I truly don’t care about a girls weight at all or looks but I feel like maybe they think I do because there’s no way the guys I see them with are more attractive to them. For reference I look like honestly probably a better looking Troy Bolton who’s a powerlifting world record holder and looks the part. It just makes me so mad because I’ve been lonely for so long and for the first 22 years of my life it was because I was so ugly but now I’m starting to get to think I may be too attractive for the average person. Anyone got any thoughts on this and could maybe give me a pov from someone that may not have confidence and sees hot guys or girls all the time like what you personally do?

Also I didn’t know where to post this so if this is the wrong place just please direct me to a subreddit instead of getting on my azz