We all know the “cut off people who don’t bring you good energy” “protect your peace” and the newest one is “decenter men” to me seems like it’s just a way for people to self isolate and not learn how to confront issues and situations that are uncomfortable for people which leads to loneliness. I just find it so sad when I see people brag about having all this good energy around after they cut off a friend who they didn’t communicate to that they were annoying them on something or a partner who they didn’t even talk to about issues in their relationship. I feel like we should encourage people to deal with hard situations and learn how to overcome them instead of avoiding people.