I got left on read after a guy reacted to my story and then asked me to come over. I suggested Friday or Sunday night, he asked “why not Saturday” and when I said I have work and I could go another week if those two days weren’t good, he left me on read.

I’ve known him for 10 months and i’ve had sex with him about 8 times and we’re basically fwb. I don’t want a relationship but i’m attached to him at the same time since he was my first. I enjoyed learning new things through meeting up with him. But there’s too much disrespect from his end that I can’t even fit in this post.

I know I should ignore him if he doesn’t message me by sunday but ends up contacting me afterwards. How do I keep my mind off him. Hanging out with friends and new hobbies aren’t working. Some days I feel like I don’t rlly like him but i’m still attached.

My friends say “get under a new guy to get over an old one”. I’ve never fully gone through with it and somehow the other men were a lot worse and made him feel like a better guy. What should I do? Is this unhealthy, or should I finally open up to the idea of a new fwb?