I’ve been obsessed with this guy for 10 months. He’s the most selfish person i’ve ever met in my life, and the gravity of all his actions are just now starting to hit me. Recently he seems like he’s been having fun with his life, honestly good for him but it’s bothering me. He ruined 2024 for me, and my birthday. I’m not going to bother communicating my feeling with him anymore bc he doesn’t give a single shit about my feelings. I just rlly need a mental distraction, but trying to create hobbies and hanging out with friends isn’t helping. I want to change my mentality to stop caring about him. Any advice is helpful (except therapy)