For context, my ex and I were on and off due to long distance. My friends will always send me girls profiles and they’d hyped me up to go after girls that are “my type” or looks like my ex. We’d joke around a lot and even hit up girls whenever we’re out drinking.

In fact, they even helped me get my current gf. So technically, they pushed me to go find someone else even when I was still with my ex. My current gf puts in a lot of effort and befriends them. They’ve hung out with her, she’d bring them out and etc in comparison to my ex whom they only met once (cause she’s from a different country).

I later on find out that one of my girl friends have been in contact with my ex. Literally, reached out to her while she was in her country to hang out. A part of me finds this disrespectful to our friendship and my relationship with my current gf. Cause my gf has done nothing but been a good friend to her and she was one of the main people who pushed me to go after my current gf. So what’s up? Why are you still contacting my ex that you’ve only met once and meeting up and stuff?

Perhaps I find this a little two faced. Like I can’t trust this girl friend. What are your thoughts?