I asked her and she hasnt given me her list, im afraid to ask my sister because i might get shamed, I know for damn sure my grandmother wont keep her mouth shut and use it as an excuse to put me down again, she literally yelled “YOU DONT KNOW WHAT TO GET FOR YOUR OWN MOTHER” to the top of her lungs last time i asked. I might ask my sister for advice

the few things i know. she likes everything neat and clean (said no to a roomba)

when my stepdad got her a mirror/make up kit mix thats the size of a small fridge she almost cried.

i know she likes nail and hair products.

shes good at cooking

works with computers,

has back issues so i could get something for that.

not really a fan of of video games bur likws banjoo kazooi

always cold

im trying to get gifts that might help her avoid inconveniences but if you have any other ideas please let me know