I’ve known him for 10 months, he was my first time and we meet up to talk and have sex sometimes. He lives 2 hours away from me and I like visiting the area so i’ll take a train to go over. He’s asked if I would ever date him (probably to test how much I like him) and I said no, i’m rlly attached but i’m okay with a casual arrangement. But he tries to complicate things, by saying he wants kids or he’ll marry me if I want a citizenship.

Recently he invited me over and said I could come on Saturday or Sunday and when I asked what time he said it’s up to me. I said I would go on Saturday night, and on the day at 6pm he asked when and I said I would be there at 10pm.

I took the wrong train and told him I would be there at 10:45 an hour before. He didn’t pick up my calls or read my messages. He called me at 11 pm and told me he was at his “homeboys house”. And asked if for me to come out drinking with them in town. I said no and asked him to come back. He said he would and at 11:30 told me he would get there in 15 minutes. I ended up waiting an hour but it would’ve been 2 if I hadn’t taken the wrong train.

He’s done worse before. Why? This can be so easily avoided but I feel like he’s doing it on purpose. He knows I have no train to get home at that time, and idk anyone in the area. I was alone in the cold.

TL;DR: Guy invites me over at whatever time I want and was still at his friends house an hour after the time I gave. I got lost so I ended up waiting an hour, it would’ve been 2 otherwise. I didn’t have a way to go back home and he knows idk anyone else in the area. Why?