It’ll be guys that I expect to be okay with having just a friendship with me. If they express interest I really don’t want to lead them on so I always let them know I’m not looking to date them and to just be friends.

But recently I’ve found I’ve been in multiple situations where I’ve had to repeat myself. There was a guy that invited me into his house and when I said no he asked me why and even though I didn’t have to give him a reason I straight up told him “I’m not turned on by you” and he says “oh I could definitely turn you on” and I was just like gtfo of my car dude.

It happened again yesterday, I had already told the guy I only gave him my number because he seemed cool and that Im not looking to date him and I’m only looking for friends, and that I was sorry if I had seemed like I was indicating towards anything before by giving him my number. He said that it was fine and he was totally okay with it. He asks me to hang out yesterday and I was down because I wasn’t doing anything and miss socializing but when we were chillin he ended up bringing up how he would be down to date me and I was like “no like I told you I just want to be friends” and he was like “well I’m down to wait however long you need until your ready”. This UBER pissed me off. There have been a bunch of other similar situations, but what the fuck is going on?? I’m definitely done with trying to be friends with guys, but am I doing something wrong? Is it possible that I give off the vibes that I’m easily pushed over? Is it stupid of me to expect guys are okay with just being friends?????