I’m 24M, I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, we met at a nightclub on January 6, 2023, it was the basic love trip, he couldn’t stop staring at me and I kept wanting to talk to him when I sat down with friends. We dated the day after that and we have been together ever since. We’ve been through a lot and I can’t even fake the fact that I love him. It’s not forced, I actually love spending time with him and I wasn’t like that much at the start because I wanted my club life. I still do but I can still spend my club life with him, which he isn’t opposed to.

We live an hour away from each other. He’s near the beach and I live in an apartment in the city. It’s nothing super fancy, it’s just above ground and I work as a promoter. Im self sustaining, I can provide for people and I feel like I’m ready for this.

I can’t actually afford a nice ring, but I did ask my dad if I could use his and he’s ok with it, providing I put the occasion to good use, which I can definitely do. I want him to move in with me and I’m ready for him to be in my life a lot more. But through all of this, do you think I’m too young to marry someone else? Do I need to be self sufficient a little longer? If yes, that’s totally valid. But I want to give this all of my effort.