Maybe I'm just feeling some changing perspectives but I'm f24 and it seems like all the guys I talk to just want to have sex or are obsessed with the idea of fate and that I will fix them and make them whole.

I didn't have a teenage rebellious stage and with covid it made it hard to make connections. With that being said and 3 relationships later - I'm still a virgin bevause it seems like everyone I've been with, or talked to, or had a situationship with... just want to talk about (and have) sex. It doesn't matter if I say I dont want to talk about those things at that time, it doesn't matter if I try to gently steer the conversation away from that, It always ends up with them just asking and asking. It's so tiring.

I'm at the point in my life where it seems like every man I encounter just wants sex and is not interested in actually talking to or liking women. Please tell me good men exist and how do I recognize them.