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How do I tell my boyfriend he shakes hands like a wimp?
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Okay so weā€™ve been together for over 7 years and when he met my dad for the first time 6 years ago my dad told me later on that when he shook his hand, it was super wimpy and almost limp. I was shocked and kind of put off by this but ended up forgetting about it. I was raised to always have a firm handshake, especially if youā€™re a man. A weak handshake in a man can really put other people off. A strong handshake shows confidence. We are going to a wedding this weekend and heā€™ll be meeting a lot of my family for the first time and I really want to bring up the handshake thing but Iā€™m not sure how to go about it without hurting his feelings or making it seem like Iā€™m telling him to do something. Any advice?

Note: Before anyone makes any comments about how it doesnā€™t matter or itā€™s just ā€œtoxic masculinity cultureā€, just donā€™t. Everyone has different opinions and you wonā€™t change mine. And yes Iā€™ve heard people say these things before lol.

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