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How to date with little experience
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How should I navigate dating apps when I don’t have much experience. I’m 24f and heres my history: I’ve only made out 7 times in my life with 3 guys, I’ve been fingered 3 times (twice by my ex and once from another guy), I’ve only give a bj twice (to my ex only) and im a virgin. Usually when I talk to guys I’m upfront about my lack of experience because I want someone who is fine with taking things slow. However I feel most just ghost me after or turn it into this weird fetish about me being a virgin. So should I stop telling guys that? When I should I tell them how inexperienced i am? I mean to be honest I still don’t know how to French kiss, I just smile if a guy tries too! I’m insecure about that too, the first two guys I kissed said that ruined the mood and thst I wasn’t good at kissing. My ex never said anything about it. Also my ex and i were long distance. We rarely saw each other which is why I only sucked him off twice. So now I’m just nervous to be dating. When I met my ex I was 22, it was still cute to be so inexperienced but now I’m 24 and most men think I’m lying when I say I’m a virgin 💀 I’m also nervous because what if they try to kiss me, I’m going to suck! I don’t even really like making out to honest. I feel it’s mostly because the first two guys made me get into my head and over tbink things. Then with my ex I was never able to get fully comfortable with him in person. So I feel I didn’t get to enjoy making out. Now though if I date, w guy isn’t going to wait to make out until I’m fully comfortable with them. What guy my age will be okay with taking things slow with kissing?!! Let alone sexual things. Im also fat so I feel that doesn’t help. I feel most men believe fat women will be easy. So how should I go about dating? When do I tell them how inexperienced I am? I mean I’ve never even cuddled with a guy. My ex and i only did stuff in his car. You can’t really cuddle in a car. Also I always feel like I’ll run out things to say when talking to a guy. I feel that way because I’ve noticed men don’t really talk. It’s usually me doing the talking which makes me feel they aren’t interested.

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