I know this is gonna read like I think I'm super attractive, but I don't, and I'm not. I'm an almost 30 year old with a shaved head cause I inherited my father's hairline. If I grow my beard past an inch or two I look like an Amish man, and I'm also a stimulant addict so I'm skinny as shit. I never get enough sleep and it shows, plus my nose has been broken enough times that it sits crooked upon my face. I'm not hideous, but I know I'm nothing above average either, and my personality doesn't do me many favors either (hence the broken nose).

Anyway, about 50% of the time that I go and grab food, go shopping, or do almost anything with my girlfriend, she gets insecure because "that waitress was really into you" or something similar. Last night we grabbed Taco Bell and the girl that gave me the food was apparently giving me "fuck me eyes." For the record if any of these girls were flirting with me then I couldn't tell, I don't even know for sure if my own girlfriend is into me. Regardless, the rest of my night was spent trying to convince her that I wasn't flirting with Taco Bell girl in front of her. (Gf wasn't mad with jealousy or anything it just made her feel bad)

I also know that this could be due to my gf simply being really insecure. She is insecure, and I constantly do my best to reassure her that she's the only girl I have eyes for. That being said, she isn't the first girl that has said this kind of stuff regarding the way that some random woman (or random guy sometimes) talks to or looks at me. I've had multiple girls say the same thing, and my (gay male) best friend has told me a hundred times or more that "bro that cashier was into you."

So what's the deal? Is my girl just insecure, and if so how can I help her feel less so?