I’m 45/m divorced with 2 kids from Europe and now live on the East coast of the U.S.

As being a divorced dad trying to meet women isn’t always the easiest. After several months on Reddit r4r and other dating sites I’m amazed at how many posts from women that say upfront they are not interested in a guy that is not cut?

I really don’t understand it. Why have some women such an aversion where they will just straight up say, sorry dude, not interested.

Not once has this come up in conversation with a woman in Europe but for some reason it has on a number of occasions in the U.S.

So women of America who are this way inclined, help me understand?