I’m 39M have met this young lady 34W; and I’m catching g feelings. We have met up a few time a in a group environment and we’re going to meet up again in a group setting for lunch. The past two times her friends have gone home and it’s just been her and I left in the group; I’d like to extend lunch to maybe an evening date. To the point: She’s an amazing person either way, but I may have overheard her saying she’s lesbian.. for context it was at a bar and some random was trying his best. With me, sometimes our interactions feel flirty; she’s grabbed my hand ran it across her chest (I played cool as I could lol), mentioned the “I’m drunk lol”, she feels comfortable enough for me to have my arm around her while we are sitting at the bar shooting pool. She’s even took my hand when I reached out for it before crossing the street. Some clarity would be nice. What’s a good way to go about it and getting an answer without being rude/awkward or even fucking up the group?