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Is calling a man sassy the equivalent to calling them gay?
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I got into an argument with my friend because he was being a little rude after I asked him kind of a dumb question iā€™ll admit about a fast food restaurant. But he was being really mean and kept talking about it/ making fun of me so I told him to ā€œcalm down. Youā€™re getting a little too sassy with the mouthā€ and he decided to insult me saying I was a hoe. Iā€™ve never been called this in life and it was completely uncalled for so we got into an argument. He claimed that he was just defending himself because I ā€œjust basically call (him) gay. You donā€™t call a man sassy.ā€ I never thought sassy = gay maybe a bit emasculating but gay?? Idkā€¦ Does calling him sassy mean iā€™m calling gay? Like is this commonly only associated with women and gay ppl?

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I never said I was trying to emasculate him I said it could been seen as that but what does that have to do with the situation and no I donā€™t find an issue with making someone else feel less than when they were doing that exact same thing to me firstā€¦ If you accept ppl bullying you then thatā€™s on you I guess

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ding ding ding thank you

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not a clue. Did nothing to deserve nor does my character portray this. He even said after that he doesnā€™t actually think I am. Maybe just fragile ego

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šŸ¤Ø he knows it. You wonā€™t weirdo

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do you wanna make something up and just have that be your reality or something?

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I was already aware of the definition and looked it up that night to prove my point lol Iā€™m interested in more connotation than denotation though

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iā€™m a very literal person probably too often honestlyšŸ˜… I will refrain from calling any other man this thnx

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ok thanks for this insight.

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