Nofap, gone for a walk, had a bath....controlled the urge....now realizing we really overlook the obvious things going with others....really life is getting very fast....not sure is it okay to be so much competitive, as after 100 - 200 yrs , no body is f***ing going to remember/ care about majority of us.....so doing all of this and competitiveness between people...does it really matter...is it really worth it? I meet with one of my close friend recently...and things he said really shook me... What he said: i am a 27yr old m, jobless, only studying from past 5-7 yrs struggling to get a job...not sure even will get it or not....parents also getting old....and i really feel ashamed of still doing nothing for them...i see many people achieving soo much at their early age and still not getting satisfied, they are always going for more....even my friends are getting married, getting all successful.....and here am i sitting hopelessly on this spot between the books....really feel like i should burn all of this up😞....i really thinking to give up

He is really a bright an positive guy..i know for sure..i have seen him solve stuff and being happy....but seeing him this way really making me realize..is this competitiveness for going to top destroying us?? Was the era of kings was much better, as there were already some people at the tops...and their heirarchy were the only one to become successor ruler, For a average guy like me/my friend...we would live in peace..as there might be not much competition??(dont know what i am saying, but someone of you will get my point)

The last thing for which i am really posting 1.Is nofap making me all the realization...coz i never felt like this...??(kind of sad now....that i was deluded with these harsh realities) 2. i really want to help my friend...what advice can i give to him??...to cheer him up and clear his negetive emotions, seeing him this way is really making me sick....i came to his place for staying with him , as i am not certain if he is going to take some silly step.

Guys, pls help !!