This might be controversial.

Within the past few days, I created this NoFap challenge where I don’t watch porn and can only ejaculate if it’s during cybersex to a real woman (or actually sex of course). I found a couple girls to share their kik accounts, and have been cyberlaid twice thus far. In the process, I had to shmooze my way into winning the girl, by being smooth and being a genuine human being who cares for her and her tastes. I also learned how to get girls interested in the first place, with a couple stumbling blocks along the way (which I’ll divulge later if you have questions). Sometimes it’s an lengthy process, but that’s how relationships and actual sex is, unlike the instant gratification porn offers. The lengthiness has help teach me patience and remind me to do this only rarely. I feel I’ve learned a lot of lessons going through all of this, not just about girls, but how watching porn is affecting my performance. Importantly, it was validating for me to know that some women are sexually attracted to me, and rewarding that I got to give them pleasure by being present and strutting my stuff. In this arena confidence was the gatekeeper.

Sure, there are caveats. For the more sex-addicted (than porn-addicted) of you, this challenge may exacerbate your current issues. For others, it seems just as vain as porn. Some may fail at the challenge, getting them nowhere or worsening their sense of self. Yet for others it may be an eye-opener (as it was for me), and thereby a stepping-stone to success, overcoming porn, and being with women in real life.