Hey there,

So it's been 105 days since my last PMO. 11 days ago I really felt like I needed to discharge (e.g. ejaculate, lol), so I just masturbated with no P. This is already a sign of progress for me, as I've rarely been able to reach orgasm without P. This time, it was easy as heck, as I've had lots of sexual desire built up, a lot less desensitized as well, as expected. Didn't need to fantasize or anything, the sensation was pretty intense as it is.

So anyways, I've never had sex, nor do I see it happening in the near future with a certain someone. I've been wondering whether I should maybe try a fleshlight to orgasm every now and then (for example every 2 weeks or so), or completely abstain altogether. Is there a place for moderation here? I should mention that my overall goal is to have sex with a girl, but that is a different project. My additional goal (sort of related) is to cut the connection between P and orgasm as much as possible.

Your opinions please, thanks!