I hardly ever see people talk about the human aspect of porn. Valid points are consistently thrown around, and yet starting to view people trying to live as objects of feels under conversed.

This is to get at me, for years I’ve watched porn and it’s certainly changed how i view people, this was the case until i met a beautiful beautiful girl and sat down to look at her as not only a human, but a human i could seriously spend my life with. I won’t lie to you and say I haven’t looked at her or talked with her with sexual intent- that much is reciprocated- however, for me masturbation feels dehumanizing to the individual im looking at. This isn’t the case for her but my brain is recognizing how porn brings out human desire to abuse what it views as a tool.

I seriously love her, but im worried the sexual aspect might be too much for me. And it’s not her fault.