First of all it is the first time I (26M) post something on Reddit so I am sorry for any mistake.

The first time I tried to have sex with a woman(19 years old) I had problem with my erection. So I didn’t achieve to have sex with this girl. Later on I didn’t try it again with any other girl because I was afraid it will end the same way.

Until the age of 22 when I had sex for the first time but again with some difficulties because I was not sure again if I would gain and maintain an erection.

Since then I had 2 relationships. 2/4 times we had sex I had the same issue and I feel like I haven’t enjoyed sex at its fullest. Even now everytime I am going to have sex I will think about it and many times it doesn’t work, especially with new girls. This situation has made me very anxious and afraid about sex(so it lowers my libido). I don’t know if it is performance anxiety or PIED.

Also even if I had some teen experiences with people of same sex (Because I was very shy to talk to girls so I experimented with people I was comfortable, but I didn’t like it) I am sure that I am straight because I like girls, I had several crushes and I fantasize about them, however this situation has made me question even my orientation.

Please help me if anyone relates to it.