So my wife and I are in a polyamorus/ENM☆ relationship and we had a girlfriend, the only partner we shared. She and her gf were also in a poly/ENM relationship. Some background: gf's(A) gf (we'll call her B) had rules...well, no, boundaries for their relationship (as do I and Wife(W)) and that gave B the right to veto any of A's relationships, on-going or just starting to talk, if they made her uncomfortable.

So W and I, are dating A and some life shit came up and so A was overwhelmed with everything, so B used her right to veto for right now, our 3s relationship. And that hurts all 3 of us but for now it's what's best. So I guess what I'm saying is this is what happened before my shift today at work and I was really fighting the urge to relapse. But work had me a bit busier than usual today so I was able to take my mind off everything and actually sorta process emotions healthier than relapse.

I guess what I'm really trying to say is: it's been really hard but I'm still somehow in for day 22 :3

☆ENM is the abbreviation for Ethical Non Monagamy (I don't want to get anything incorrect by trying to explain when my head isn't in the right place so please feel free to google)

Edit to add:

Me-M My wife-W My gf-A My gf's gf-B