Moderators
Subreddit Rules
Be a Good Community Member
Rules in this lifestyle are important, one mistake on someone's rules can have lifetime consequences.
Be polite, respectful & follow proper Reddiquette https://www.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/205926439
Don't monopolize the subreddit by submitting similar posts for several days in a row.
Put a good faith effort into your posts and interactions in the comments.
No Selling
Any profiles or posts that mention or have links to OF, Premium Snap, CashApp, or any other methods of payment will be banned.
No selling includes posting flyers for clubs or parties.
Buying includes offering drugs or money for services.
Stay on Topic
This is specifically for the New York swinging community so please stay on topic (swinging, hotwife, stag/vixen, etc).
If you are a single and looking for singles, please go use another subreddit. This means any posts stating or implying M4F or F4M will be removed.
No Singles Posting Dick Pics
Single Men, keep it classy and skip the dick pic. Be better than flashing a picture of your junk or you'll be banned. Doesn't matter if it is a full body pic, if we can only see part of it, or if it's just the tip.
This is not a ban on dicks in pics but it is a ban on dick pics. If you can't understand the difference, ask the mods.
Be sexy.
Appeals/Reversals
We all want to keep this subreddit free of troublemakers. Our volunteer moderators & automated spam filters do their best. Sometimes a good post can be incorrectly flagged or a good member accidentally breaks a rule. If this happens, or you have been told to read the rules, contact the mod team and mention "orange" in your message or title to show you read the rules thoroughly. Be polite & explain your situation.
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