I've got some anxiety about having friends with benefits and not needing emotional attachment in order to have sex, so I'm looking for someone who has the patience to not hurt me, walk me through some things, show me a good time, and maybe be something regular if it works out. I'd like for us to actually get to be friends at some point. That would be neat. Who knows? I'm a nerdy pc gamer with a penchant for fantasy and scifi. We could do board games or ttrpgs, too.

I'm trans with a functional penis but socially transitioned, vocally pass, and always hairless, minus the top of my head. I'm a virgin bottom with only AFAB experience. There's a photo on my profile. I'd like to try being submissive if you're someone into kink but if you're not, I'm still looking to be on the receiving end, if I can. I can be a domme (and am in my current dynamic), but I'm looking primarily for change. My spouse knows I'm here and is fully supportive. We are poly. For now, I'm just looking for myself. I hope to hear from you. Please be local and interested in actually meeting. I'm located in the Mankato area and would prefer not to travel out of town too far. You're welcome to travel here if you're so inclined, but I don't have somewhere to host so the hotel is on you. I look forward to hearing from you.

Please don't bother reaching out if you're unwilling to share your face pictures. Mutual attraction is a necessity and discreet partners are not welcome. If you can't admit to people in your life that you fuck me, I'm not interested. I will require you get screened for STI's and abstain from sexual contact with others until we meet. No exceptions.

In return, I offer an abundance of enthusiasm, a willingness to learn and please, and no small amount of effort. I have a fairly open schedule and I'd love someone who can meet regularly, and maybe often.