Hello everyone. So I have a confession to make. I’m a bit confused and wondering if I’m in the right place. I stumbled upon this group while perusing Reddit. I have always been in the lifestyle in one form or another. I move here years ago when my wife was pregnant and haven’t started getting involved with all of this again until recently. I find it harder now, probably because I (as a person) have changed and want / value different things now. But being that it’s my first time trying any of this in Albuquerque, I wonder.

1. Is this lifestyle harder to live in Albuquerque in general? It never felt this hard in other areas. If you answer please include your experience in other areas you have lived.

2. And this is not an attack on anyone or this page. ( I love the pictures of all of you beautiful women) I’m wondering, am I confusing hot wifing with I’m a wife who is hot? There seems to be a lot of pics with no intent. Or maybe all the real conversations are going on behind the scene?

Anyway no hate just curious.