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Maybe it isn't them, maybe it is us
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If it happens every time when someone leaves or stop talking to you then maybe it isn't other people but instead it is us who have issues and push people away. I was told this as I was young and I refused to believe it and I continued to try and prove them different. Now I am tired of trying. It has become very apparent that this is my truth and seems so for many other people. They don't want to know about our sadness, loneliness, and they don't want to be there for us 24/7 like we want them to. Does anyone here really have someone they have known for more than 3 years? and if so then what are you doing here? Just admit, if you aren't entertaining enough people will get bored of you eventually and leave. But don't forget no matter how hard you try to be entertaining you can't actually be entertaining because in truth you aren't. You actually need help before you meet people. You need to work things out before you can actually establish relationships because if not then guess what? the same thing will happen over and over again. I've lived it too many times to not believe this is the truth. I've seen it in every post here too. Maybe it is time for us to stop this bs and figure out what issues we need to resolve first.

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